What a shocking situation! Mac, I concur with Andy's comments, they have lost a great asset within the VOC.
Since buying into newer FWD Volvoness, (not having left the RWD goodness of the 300, but merely moving onto a daily drive that might leave the 300's more time for care and less daily abuse,) I required the very good technical resources the VOC forums offered. On visiting the site I found it was not currently viewable, then I saw this thread the next day. Removing the entire forum from view is not the answer.
Leaving the useful technical section, or everything on view and locking the forums until the problem is sorted is one way forward. Suspending the involved members until the dispute is sorted is another. It's the age old problem, everyone suffers and gets punished for the bad behaviour of a small minority.
Personally, I have no interest in what the argument was about or what kicked it off, and I will make no comment on it from here say and speculation. Very wrong and misinformed judgements can be made in this way.
A public forum is merely another open form of voicing any opinion. The problem is, the 'internet tough guy' comes out to play, as they can hide behind a username, they can say what they want to who they want, often without thinking, and often safe in the knowledge they will never meet these people, in real life they probably would not say face to face the things they would on a forum.
I too hope V3M never gets into a situation like this. We have always had an incredibly friendly and welcoming forum, I hope it stays this way forever. There is nothing I hate more than bitching, closed groups of friends that hate newcomers and any accusations made against someone that are unfounded.
I won't go into detail here, but I have been the victim of libellous accusations and comments on an internet forum. The forum in question states in the terms and conditions on joining, something along the lines of; any views and opinions and information posted on the forum are those of the user and not of the forum, and they take no responsibility for anything posted on there.
On contacting the moderators of the forum, they removed the offending topic, however it had been on view for over four months, and I had been named within it. I do not hold the forum responsible for anything to do with the topic, they cannot control everything within it. I believe one or two moderators have made attempts to cover my name, but had not spotted them all or kept up with the thread. The person who wrote it is responsible, pure and simple! The problem was I did not know anything about it or spot it until recently and it was full of lies and inaccuracies.
The other problem is, in my opinion anyway, as the internet expands and becomes more popular, this problem is only going to get worse. How far do you go with censorship? At what point can you prevent someone sharing or voicing an opinion? I will always defend the right for everyone to have an opinion, that is what makes us individuals and allows the world to change, not always for the better, but it also allows discussion. My problem with opinion is when it turns into a statement, allegation or accusation against someone or something. There is nothing wrong with stating facts, but when opinion forms an allegation or accusation, especially when it is based on rumour, here say or second or third hand information, the problem can get out of hand and is wrong. When presented with one side of a story, the impartial user can make a comment, this can then escalate, opinions can be divided, sides may be taken, more problems can arise, arguments may start, the other side of the story may be represented, and so it continues!
I think some of the blame in some of these situations can be given to the unconnected user who passes comment. Yes it is their right to have an opinion, but you must always remember there are always two sides to every story! You may have only been presented with one, that is most probably trying to win your support or backing, in which case it may be biased, not presenting all of the facts, or untrue. By commenting, you may be adding fuel to the fire. I often make the active decision that by keeping out of such discussions until I have both sides a story, (in internet and real life situations) I can then make an informed decision and form an impartial opinion based on facts, then if there is a need for my opinion to be stated or heard, it should not be anything I may later regret.
Sorry for the long post, but it is something I have had to deal with recently. I hope V3M remains a happy, friendly place to be, but somewhere that free speech is allowed, yet people think before posting, and consider that there are two sides to every story.
Also one last point to make is that in real face to face situations, you can often pick up on the tone of voice, the way in which something is said and understand how something is intended to be taken and even facial expressions and body language can help in this. Two identical sentences can mean two very different things, for example if said sarcastically. In written form, when unable to see the other useful aids to understanding how something should be received, written comments can be misunderstood, yes we have smilies and exclamation marks etc, but thngs can be misread or misconstrued.
If you made it this far.....

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the ever opinionated,
Pete