Can't remember if it was last summer or one before that, father of two were killed at parking lot as car reversed over him, surely car did move only 5 meter's or so and did not had much of speed, but human being is fragile.
It is quite well possible to get person killed/injured for life with a car, when things go bad even seamingly tiny bump can have serious consequences, there is chaos theory that can shed some light why it is so, but I think it is better just to accept that human being is not too well made for ragdoll testing.
We may be old farts that have no idea about anything, but there was time we were looking our place in a world and learning what actually is causality in bigger picture. Most probably agree that there were pain in process at least in some scale.
But it can be that only way to figure things out is to experience them.
One of misconcepts of life around young person is that young person would be center, it is true cruelity when at some point of life one notices that there are no center, there are just the crowd and causality.
Finding out that one is one part of crowd of 6 billion or so is a start, then one learns that others are no obstacles that should move out of MY way, get out of MY road.
It took me over 30 years, don't know if some figure it out sooner, but to understand that it gives quite a lot more perspective to own actions and also opinions.
To have loud exhaust for scaring people out of way is one good example from how I used to think too when younger.
Two to five people need to be scared off so that I can do what I wan't on MY road. This means irritating few hundred of average Joe's and Mary's with loud exhaust in situations where there is even no need to. These few hundred then get annoyed to all car enthusiasts, some even anything related to cars, they demand action, they see some drift on THEIR street, which overflows their cup, so they come accross a green movement that aims to limit car usage and with moments of fun there I create many hurdles to my hobby.
Have done that for sure, I have used horn, I have raced on road just so that that one could not overtake ME on MY road.
I laugh these days to stupidity of myself, but right after I cry from what bad those small moments have caused for years and I have not even seen the bad that I have caused, but so it is, what you can't see you think there is none, even it still is.
This is just to encourage young ones to be better than old farts, however choice is always up to person itself, some live whole life the way they live when young, it probably is no any worse, but because of causality there always is something that follows.
Ian did forgot kids running after their football, damn once it was close, did run straight to front of car between parked cars, I don't know how I could avoid hitting him, but I guess was lucky, simply just saw something flash, those are things that just will happen.
One good point with driving like grandma on public street is that if something happen nobody blames you, no matter how poorly you did react, yeah, I'm still bit selfish, but I'm working on it
